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“Isn’t it wonderful” technique

Is “Isn’t it wonderful” technique about feeling good? And how to use „Isn’t it wonderful technique” to really succeed?

Neville talked about a few techniques, the „isn’t it wonderful” aka „lullaby” method is only one of them.

Basic’s repetition:

First of all, what are Neville’s techniques created for? To manifest? Not exactly. Manifesting is an automatic process that takes place all the time and every second based on the states were in. STATES. Our states are manifesting itself.
Neville designed his techniques to help us get into our chosen states.
And all of those techniques can be reduced to „imagine what implies that what you want is already an accomplished fact.”

Imagine what IMPLIES your dream is true.

„To imply” isn’t really an everyday expression. I guess for myself, I started using it when I got to know about Neville. Commonly we use imply’s synonym that is… MEAN.

Neville tells you to imagine something that means for you that your dream is true.

It’s all about meaning. The first step is to know that things don’t mean anything on their own. Second, that all the meaning comes from within. You decide what means what. And you’re blessed if you know that if you have imagined something that MEANS it is true.

What is “Isn’t it wonderful” about?

No difference with „isn’t it wonderful”. It is a technique in whitch you feel something that means something for you. “Isn’t it wonderful” is about feeling an emotion that implies/ means that what you want is true.
Very simple, very effective. It can be used to manifest both, specific wishes (like having a new car) and more general wishes (live having a great day).

It’s not the words!!!

Here comes mixing in BSC, all in white with glitter shoes.

„Isn’t it wonderful” isn’t about words. It’s never about words. Nothing in common with affirmations. (I am personally using a scene for that technique.)
It’s about feeling an emotion that means something. Neville lets us use any sense we want to FIR, can be touch, can be seeing, can be hearing, can be feeling emotions.
So no, it’s not about words. Walking around and repeating „isn’t it wonderful” will make you frantic and probably nothing more.

Don’t affirm that phrase. It won’t make anything.

Nevill’s approach vs. Abraham’s aproach

„Isn’t it wonderful” isn’t about feeling generally happy or staying positive all the time. You don’t need that. And truly doesn’t want that.

And if you do, then you not only haven’t bought the pearl but you also haven’t left the grocery store yet.
If you want to „just feel happy” or „feel generally satisfied” first of all, you don’t believe that you can manifest what you truly want.
Do you want to be happy with what you have? Sorry, but that’s technically not possible. You see, first of all, you don’t have anything at all. You just experience manifestations that come from your state. Not really your state even, state you’re in. It’s like being in France, you’re there, you taste cheese, you see Eiffel tower when in Paris, still, you don’t own the country. You can move at any moment.

And second, I tell you from my own experience. We are changeable. The way we look, our level of success, a job that we have, the job that we aspire to, the music we like, the food we like, people who we love – everything, literally everything comes from states. A few months ago I had a success story, thanks to Neville I started liking and eating tomatoes that were awful for 30 years of my earlier life. We can change everything in ourselves except our desires. We can fight with them for years or decades, we can suppress them, but they will be still there.

Feeling generally happy is not Neville’s technique. It’s Abrahams.
NOTICE: Neville talks about feeling all the time. He wrote a book called „Feeling is a secret”. But he never talks about feeling good. All he talks about is feeling that.

Let’s compare Neville’s and Abraham’s approaches:

Neville: Feeling that (what you want is already true) is the secret.
Abraham: Feeling good is the secret.

Almost the same, right? So almost makes BIIIIGGGG difference.

Praise the Lord, because I have a grade in Science of Religions and philosophy. That makes me see structures ;P (not a joke)

Neville and Abraham base on different paradigsms. They don’t describe the same thing in different ways as some think. They describe DIFFERENT Universes. (I mean Tolkien’s and Marvel’s level of a diffrence.) For both of them, life is something else. Let’s see that in detail.

Neville: Creation is already finished. Anything you can think about already is and you must only give it life by feeling is as already real.
Abraham: everything’s vibrational. Asking about something creates it in your Vortex, and when it’s there you need to get into vibrational alignment with that thing to attract it into your life.

In real desire language:
Neville: I am already an owner of silver Lexus UX that I want. Everything I need to do is to assume that I already have that car. That’s because I do already have it.
Abraham: The silver Lexus UX that I want is in my Vortex. Now I need to get into vibrational alignment with that car to attract it.

Neville: my conscious is the only reality and I am the meaning giver to everything
Abraham: Vibration determines how the thing is charged. Things can be low vibrational or high vibrational. Low vibrational means “bad”, “negative” and “broken”. High vibrational means “good”, “positive” and “healthy”.

NOTICE!!! Abraham makes a difference between high=positive things, emotions, feelings, and low=negative. It means here, for Abraham things and feelings have a meaning already attached to it! But not for Neville!!! Neville doesn’t talk about vibrations because they don’t exist unless you make them up!

In a real desire language:
Neville: having debt means you have a debt. You imagined it and it’s yours. / if you feel sad you feel sad. You imagined something that implied your sadness. To change that image differently.
Abraham: having debt means your vibrations ale low. Feeling sad implies your vibrations are low. Having low vibrations keeps you away from everything that you want because you aren’t in vibrational alignment. To change that increase your vibrations.

Neville: To manifest your desire give it life by assuming it’s already true.
Abraham: To manifest your desire increase your vibration

How to increase your vibrations? By making yourself feel good. Feeling good is high vibrational. How to do that? By looking for good sides and good aspects of what you have already. Be thankful for what you have, it’s essential for having more. If you aren’t thankful = you have low vibrations = you’re screwed.

Neville again: Things means only that that you make them mean.

Still wanna be „just generally happy”? Read again.

One more thing: Neville let you discover yourself as God. For Abraham you can be a Harry Potter in the best case.

Feeling good is feeling good. Nothing more. It won’t make magically your life better. You can be poor, fat, lonely and feeling honestly happy. Yes, it’s possible. I was manifesting this scenario for myself for a couple of years.
Abraham’s method doesn’t work. Sad joke is that sometimes while thinking that you’re doing what they say you can by accident do what Neville teaches. And then you’re super screwed. You tried something, you think it worked, but you can’t duplicate it. And then you struggle, and struggle, and… yep, it was also me. And then I was saying that „LOA is hard, but works”. Oh sweet baby Jesus…

And you know what? Feeling good won’t give you your dreams manifested. But giving life to your desires will make you happy. It works this way.

Neville Goddard’s techniques – basics

Neville’s techniques can be endlessly multiplied (ex. ladder, mirror, ring, etc) and at the same time all of them can be reduced to one – ASSUME THAT WHAT YOU WANT IS ALREADY AN ACCOMPLISHED FAKT.

What are Neville’s techniques created for? To manifest? Not exactly. Manifesting is an automatic process that takes place all the time and every second based on the states were in. STATES. Our states are manifesting itself.

The state is who are You – your identity.

Neville designed his techniques to help you get into your chosen states by imagining what IMPLIES your dream is true.

Step one: Know what do you want? – You want to be in a relationship.
Step two: Ask yourself who would you be like that. – Happy loving partner/ wife
Step three: Ask again. What would imply that it is true? – Something like your mom being happy for you or a wedding ring on your finger.

„To imply” isn’t really an everyday expression. I guess for myself, I started using it when I got to know about Neville. Commonly we use imply’s synonym that is… MEAN.


Neville tells you to imagine something that means for you that your dream is true.

It’s all about the meaning. The first step is to know that things don’t mean anything on their own. Second, that all the meaning comes from within. You decide what means what. And you’re blessed if you know that if you have imagined something that MEANS what you want is true. In other words, what follows.

“It is important always to remember that the proposed action must be one which FOLLOWS the fulfillment of your desire. Also you must feel yourself into the action until it has all the vividness and distinctness of reality.” – Neville Goddard

Never imagine a wish itself, because the core of shifting into any desired state is feeling of thankfulness/ satisfaction. There’s any of that in your wish happening. Trust me, I’ve been there also and I know that imagining a wish can only make you frantic.

How to start with Neville Goddard?

A shortcut to success in manifesting? NOTICING.
There was a time when I used to struggle with Neville A LOT. And when it started to change, it was super fast.

How I stopped struggling?

I was doing some dumb mistakes, that kept me exhausted in the „manifesting” mode. It means I was trying and trying and pushing and pushing and it wasn’t working out. I mean I thought so then. Because I was getting what I was imagining. So if you’re stuck, or think that you „have” a resistance… just stop imagining that shit.

I stopped struggling when I let myself fully noticed what exactly am I doing. In one of Nevill’s groups onFacebook you can find my old post in which I was asking why the hell did I manifest potatoes. I had so called “small” win, but I wasn’t getting why. I craved my “aha! That’s how it works!” moment. And asking questions like that and tracing my imaginal activity made me a real manifesting queen. I noticed what works and what doesn’t.

So now. Do you want to have better results? Do you want your life to be better? Do you want your conscious manifesting skills to be better?


NOTICE THAT YOU’RE ALREADY DOING IT. You have years of success stories. How old are you? Because that’s how long you are doing exactly what Neville teaches.

The thing is, Neville hasn’t discovered any new method in manifesting. He simply noticed and described how does life works.
Yes, exactly that. But he was a businessman and he built a “money-making machine” out of it. That’s the reason why he wrote so many books and gave so many lectures. To make a lot of money out of something that was his thing. He was writing the same thing over and over again – what you assume as true, is true.

If you think that there’s life and there’s manifesting, you can’t be more wrong. Manifesting isn’t anything separate from life. Manifesting is creating life. Everything in your life is manifested – by you.
You cannot not to manifest. You cannot fail in manifesting. Never. That’s technically impossible because manifesting is creating life. Your life is created/ creating through manifesting. That’s the only way.

Neville is only about doing what you’re already doing, but consciously to get the results that you want.

Like above. You have years of experience with manifesting. Remember every time you had so-called “intuition”, those cases I find the best to learn from.
Like when you lost your keys, but you know its nothing to worry about because you will find them.
Like when you argued with someone important and you weren’t talking to each other but you know its stupid shit because you love each other
like when you decided to lose weight and stopped turning back
And others like that. That’s all your success stories – you get exactly what you imagined.

NOTICE how you did it so you had your success.

My personal birthday 2020 success story

If anything assumed is real, and if all time is now, then… Then anything is possible for real.

I’m not into “manifesting tricks”, you don’t need tricks if you practice Neville’s stuff. But today I have one:

If I feel that something is impossible for me at the moment – (feeling that something is impossible implies it is impossible. Period.) – and just can’t happen at all… Then I go into the future. Assume that yes, it didn’t happen as I wanted to. And then I revise.

The outer world is a delayed reflection of the inner and is confined to a dimension of space where events occur in a time sequence. Revision, then, literally changes the past. It replaces what occurred in the outer world with the revised version. The revised scene then gives off its effect by going forth to change future events.” – Neville Goddard

I used it for spending my birthday this year in Paris… 2 weeks before the event I had still no one to go with, no extra money, any day off at work + coronavirus was starting its show. I freaked out. So I did it like above and decided to remember that yes, my birthday in 2020 I did spend in Paris no matter what will happen in the physical world. It was already reversed to my ideal. I already remembered that it was like I wanted to. I started doing alternative birthday plans and then…

I did have my Birthday in Paris exactly as I imagined it .

The core of Neville’s teachings? Assume that what you want has already happened.

What does it mean to buy a pearl?

If you want to use Neville’s teaching to succeed in life – you need to “buy the pearl”. That’s how Neville metaphors fully accepting consciousness as the only reality in a lecture “The Pearl of the great price”.

It’s basically impossible to succeed with Neville without accepting this principle. Really getting, through own experience, that consciousness is the only reality it’s a game-changer.

What does it really mean? And how does buying the pearl will change your life?

I will show you that on my personal example, which only can seems silly – for those who haven’t bought the pearl.

Earier today I have manifested a falafel.

No, it wasn’t free, I paid for it. No, I don’t live in any falafel unfriendly place. Probably even I live in the most falafel friendly city on this planet. It’s actually weird that the only place where you can’t find it here it’s city symbol. That’s really weird.

So why it is even a win?
Buying a pearl is a life-changing thing. It’s like first sex. Like giving a birth. Like a bar mitzvah. (Choose your own metaphor). Buying a pearl changes everything. Because it’s a life altering thing. Life is a diffrent experience after that.

If you think for one moment you can hold on to one little thing in the event this doesn’t work, you can’t buy the pearl. And so when I buy the pearl, I go all out and live by it. And there is no other being in this world, just this pearl, and I live by it. This pearl is your own wonderful human Imagination.” Neville Goddard

What is the pearl? It’s Knowing/Experiencing/ Accepting for REAL with ANY exceptions that consciousness is the only reality.

NOTICE: What is consciousness? Consciousness is the total sum of your assumptions. All that you believe is true. All facts. That’s all sums up to consciousness. And there’s only one consciousness – YOURS. (That implies A LOT).

There’s only one consciousness. Yours. Period. (If you still think that everybody has it’s own. And there’s something like collective consciousness -out there- and if you still think that there are things that you aren’t conscious about – you haven’t bought the pearl.

There is only one consciousness. Your. Period.

That’s why my falafel it’s a win. I imagined it and then I ate it.

If you have bought the pearl you know that you run this show. If you have bought the pearl you know that the whole life is your manifestation, If you have bought the pearl – you know that living is manifesting. If you have bought the pearl you know that everything is possible. (And you’re not interested in what’s possible… You’re just making your dreams rock-solid real)If you have bought the pearl – you are making it about you on an autopilot. And so on.

Earlier today, before work. I have passed by a nice falafel place. And I was like „yuuuum”. I felt it real without planning it. But I NOTICED. And I didn’t reverse. So it was done. Since then it was a natural – obvious thing for me that falafel’s for lunch today.

I nailed it on the spot.
Then it felt like „I have to” get it today. / Like it’s already decided. / Like „something higher than me” wants me to buy it ./ It felt like a done deal./ It felt like the most natural thing to do.
So I went there and I bought my falafel. Not really because I wanted it. Not at all because I wanted to – wanting was a secondary thing. I mean I wanted it, of course! And I enjoyed it as well! But the reason for both – for wanting and for enjoying – was the imaginal act. That I experienced it BEFORE in my consciousness.

Our free will ends on choosing a state.